Attempting to live your highest and best self can be a challenge in our world. Especially as we experience fast paced changes, pushback from those close to us, and general feelings of uncertainty.
Like most things, embracing your highest and best self takes practice and time to hone. Celebrate your core self, by choosing to be your highest and best self during each day.
What does that look like?
• Align with and trust your highest truth. Move away from external opinions, ideas, information, or pressure so your higher truth aligns with you. It’s okay if you find yourself happening to align with some of the external world, but understand that you aren’t obligated to do so. Your higher truth is your compass for what you accept or what you leave at your doorstep. Learn to trust your Higher Self’s inspirational nudgings, these usually appear as the first impulses you receive about a question or situation. It can take time to differentiate between things like fear and social pressure pushing your first impulse – instead of that from your higher truth. When your choices have fear or external pressure as the driver, stop to seriously reevaluate them. When you trust and align with your highest heartfelt wisdom, it is never fear based.
• Your truth is your place of happiness. Find yourself feeling unhappy or discontent? It likely originates because you aren’t living from your truth. Once you know yourself and your truth, don’t waiver from it. Steadfastly in living by you truth, also means you are open to change. Over time your heart and soul may give you a more advanced look at embodying your truth. It can enhance and change – but your truth is yours to use and follow throughout your life. How do you even know what your truths are? Check in with your internal wisdom. It is your key when you move away from making emotional, automatic, or ego choices that are contrary to your truth.
• You direct your journey. Move from Mental Auto Pilot and accept your role as the director of your journey and experiences. Consciously tune into your authentic mental radio station - to seek thoughts, vibrational patterns, and sounds that uplift and empower you. Negative thinking is composed of lower, disruptive frequency patterns that you can move away from if you chose to. If you don’t like what is happening in your world, lift your thoughts and change your focus. Project balanced, uplifted frequency patterns through your thoughts and intentions.
• Learn to be a detached observer. Everyone on Earth is in the process of clearing ancient memories and thought forms of the past. We cannot move forward, when we have old inside of us, waiting to be cleared. The best way to deal with feelings that no longer serve you, is by being a detached observer. Observe the feeling and state to yourself, “This is anger I am experiencing. Why is that here?” As you become a passive observer to feelings like fear, depression, guilt, and other emotions that dis-empower you – it is easier to create the space to transmute and transform them.
The key to all of these practices is YOU. Are you ready to be conscious of the words and choices you make? Are you ready to embrace your highest and best self – even if it takes practice to make it your reality?
December is the month where we are focused on giving to others. But sometimes, the best gift we can give is our whole authentic self. As you become your highest and best self you are not only giving yourself the best gift imaginable – but you are creating that energy outwards for the betterment of all.
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