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Creating the Life You Want to
Part One: Ownership as the missing link to creating our desires.
What happens when
your manifestation work isn’t working? Feelings of frustration often
You followed all the advice, all the steps,
held positive thoughts, and did all the inner-work – but that end
goal remains out of reach. Feelings like hopelessness, being stuck,
and yes, being frustrated begin to surface. You may even look for
places to lay blame, whether it be God, others, or yourself.
What can you do differently?
important to step outside of blame or victim mentalities and embrace
ownership. When you blame life, God, or others you are in victim
posture, which digs a big hole that prevents forward movement. An
important aspect of creating and manifesting the future you desire
and deserve is through owning all aspects of your life – past and
No one has control over anyone else – how they
react, think, and behave are their decisions. However, you do have
that same control over yourself, when you choose to accept the
responsibility. When you understand and claim ownership of your
experiences, choices, or even lack of them, you naturally improve.
As you grow through ownership, you expand the core of who you are
and allow your fullest potential to blossom.
It’s okay if it
feels uncomfortable to step into ownership of your life. Letting go
of old habits like blaming and avoiding can be difficult as they
feel familiar and take time to unravel. When you are able to stand
tall and move into ownership, great self-power reveals itself. This
type of empowerment not only comes from within you, but it is
supported by the Universe.
When you create your life from
your source of empowerment – forward movement unfolds with fewer
obstacles. This outcome is so different from experiencing the same
negative feelings over and over, which occurs when you create from a
place of blame, feeling victimized, or being frustrated.
important element of ownership is to learn from the past and then
leave it behind. It is a waste of your precious energy to review old
instances because they are over and you can’t change them. Wallowing
in the past, especially old decisions also sets your creative
energies in the wrong direction.
However, there is a
discernable difference between wallowing in the past and using it as
a tool for personal growth. Your past is the key to lessons and a
better understanding of how you want your life to become. For
instance, a poor decision made once can be a lesson you need to
experience growth and personal understanding. If you miss the lesson
and don’t accept ownership of your decision – you likely will find
that the lesson will continue to appear until you fully embrace it.
If you learn the lesson the first time and claim ownership for your
decision while changing your related belief or behavior, you’ll
experience a different outcome.
Wherever you are in your life
right now, it is a result of decisions and choices that you made up
to this moment. The past can’t be changed, but you can change your
future by moving into full ownership of all your choices, decisions,
and experiences. This is your pathway to evolution and change.
If you want to move freely into the future and be able to create
the life you desire - accept that the past (which includes a few
minutes ago) is over. The only place the past can still be active is
in your own mind, emotions, or cells of your body. Your spin on it
only exists with you!
Take the time to work through what your
emotional or belief spin is in a quiet, reflective state. Write down
all that you discover and take time to release each of your past
beliefs and emotions one at a time, while replacing each of them
with something empowering. This exercise will help you feel lighter
and more balanced. This process also allows the real you to surface
and your new dynamic life to unfold!
In next month’s
posting, I will share ideas for creating your new life after you
have taken ownership of your past and present.
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